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title: "LinkedIn Connection Requests: Thoughtful Strategies for Building Your Network"
description: Your LinkedIn connection request sets the stage for networking. Learn when to personalize, when to skip the note, and how to build a thriving network.
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 February 5, 2025

# LinkedIn Connection Requests: Thoughtful Strategies for Building Your Network

- [by Colleen McKenna](https://blog.interoadvisory.com/blog/author/colleen-mckenna)

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## **Setting the Stage for Connection**

A LinkedIn connection request is more than just an action—it’s an opportunity. It may not always be your first impression, but it establishes the tone for future interactions. Whether you include a note or not depends on your purpose, your audience, and your strategy for engaging with that person over time.

 

To make LinkedIn work for you, build a network that thrives, not just exists. Think of it as planting seeds; each connection can grow into something impactful. Let’s explore when a personalized note is effective and when your content can do the heavy lifting.

 

 

## **The Case for Adding a Note**

A personalized note is effective when:

**You’ve Met Before**: Reference where you met or how you know them to build immediate rapport.

- Example: *Hi Joe, it was great to meet you at the Innovate 2025 panel! I enjoyed our brief chat about \[specific topic\] and would love to stay connected here.*

 

**There’s Context for Connection**: If you’re reaching out because of shared interests, mutual connections, or specific work they’ve done, a note provides clarity.  
  

- Example: *Hi Sam, I recently read your post on \[topic\] and found your insights incredibly helpful. I’d love to connect and follow your future updates.*

 

**You’re Collaborating or Engaging Directly**: If the connection is about an upcoming project, event, or opportunity, a quick note sets expectations.  
  

- Example: *Hi Michael, As a fellow {Insert Assoc.} member, I noticed our shared focus on {Insert}. Let's connect.*

 

**Pro tip**: Keep notes short, relevant, and specific. Personalization isn’t about length; it’s about showing genuine interest or relevance.

 

## **When to Skip the Note**

Sometimes, skipping a note is more effective, especially if you’re focused on broader audience-building:

**General Audience Building**: If your goal is to grow your network and convert followers through content, skipping a note might work better. Without an immediate personal connection, a note could lower acceptance rates. Let your profile and content establish trust after they accept.

 

**Obvious or Immediate Context**: A note may not be necessary when the connection already makes sense without additional explanation.

Examples include: 

- Connecting with a colleague physically present in your office.
- Sending a connection request during a call and verbally mentioning it: “I just sent you a connection request.” 
- Connecting with a family member or close acquaintance where the relationship is already clear.

 

**Broad Professional Alignment**: When connecting with those who share your professional interests but don’t know you personally, skipping the note avoids seeming forced. A strong profile headline and optimized profile can often make a lasting impression.

## **Managing Expectations: Not Every Connection Will Land**

Some users rarely check LinkedIn or struggle to navigate it effectively. Notifications can get buried, and requests might be missed entirely. If a connection request goes unanswered, don’t take it personally. Adjust your strategy and explore other ways to engage.

 

Periodically withdraw unaccepted requests to follow LinkedIn’s guidelines. Use these moments to reflect: Are you targeting the right audience? Are your requests aligned with your goals?

 

 

## **Tips for Strategic Connection Requests**

Follow these steps to maximize your connection success:

**Assess Engagement**: Look at the person’s activity. Are they posting, commenting, or liking content? Active users are more likely to accept.

 

**Connection Count**: A low number of connections (e.g., fewer than 200) could indicate infrequent use or a selective approach to LinkedIn. Sending many messages to those types of users can impact the number of connections you can send.

 

**Relevance Over Templates**: The most successful connection builders focus on understanding their audience instead of relying on generic outreach. By targeting hyper-relevant connections and avoiding templates, you build genuine relationships.

 

**Be Patient and Consistent**: Use your content to build familiarity and trust over time. A connection request is just the start; consistent, high-quality engagement strengthens relationships.

## **Evaluating Your Pending Connection Requests**

**Access Your Sent Requests**: Go to LinkedIn’s "My Network" tab and click "Show All" under Sent Requests.

 

**Review Previews**: Check what each recipient saw. Did your message provide enough context, or was it too generic? Example: *"\[Name\] would like to connect"* offers little incentive to accept.

 

**Identify Patterns**: Spot commonalities in unaccepted requests. Were recipients inactive, were your messages too generic, or not the right target audience?

 

**Adjust and Refine**: Craft new, relevant messages based on what you learned. Include specifics about how you know the person or why connecting benefits both of you.

 

**Test Improved Messaging**: Use this blog’s strategies to craft better, personalized requests.

 

 

## **Building Connections with Purpose**

A LinkedIn connection request should align with your broader networking strategy. Leaders in connection-building prioritize relevance and effort over generic outreach. Whether you add a note or not, focus on building a network that reflects your goals and fosters meaningful engagement.

 

You'll create authentic, lasting professional connections by avoiding impersonal, lazy approaches and embracing hyper-targeted, intentional strategies.

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